Miles - Alveolar RhabdomyosarcomaAugust 25, 1988 – August 19, 2007
August 21, 2007
Miles' funeral was yesterday. So unusual for Michigan in August, but it was cool, damp, and frequently raining heavily. The sky, like many, was crying. Moving eulogies were offered.
There is relief that he is no longer in pain. With the exception of a handful of days, he was in varying degrees of pain for most of the last two years; he is free of that now. The fact that he could maintain his outlook each and every day, let alone be cheerful and optimistic, is a testament to something unusual about him.
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As I predicted, my suffering feels inconsolable. There are periods of calm followed by a wail I didn't know lived in my body. I don't know how someone does this really. I'm not convinced that the passage of time is the answer.... Your messages do help - especially from those who have walked or are walking this path.
Another word for cancer is WAITING. Always waiting. Waiting for the diagnosis, waiting for the treatment plan, waiting for the chemo to work, waiting for the drugs to work that counteract the awful effects of the chemo, waiting for scan results, waiting for a phone call, waiting to see the doctor, waiting to hear what's going to happen when the treatment doesn't work, and then finally, for Miles, waiting to die. Now, I'm waiting to recover.
(Source: levinstory on http://www.carepages.com/)
A year ago, Miles Levin wrote on his CarePage: “Your biological vitality means very little – having a beating heart and operational lungs does not define you. Your effect on the world around you does. Once you fulfill that service, your shift is done. You’re off work and it’s time to go home.”
On Sunday, August 19, 2007 Miles fulfilled his service here on Earth.... He captured the hearts and souls of everyone here at CarePages, and the lives he touched far beyond as his story began making national headlines.
(Source: story of inspiration on http://www.carepages.com/)
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